By Prashirwin Naidu
As the year draws to a close, Sharks flanker Vincent Tshituka reflects on a season of growth, challenge, and gratitude — both on and off the field. Born in the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC) and raised in South Africa, the 26-year-old has become one of rugby’s most dynamic and mentally resilient talents. In this candid conversation, he opens up about faith, family, and the lessons that continue to shape his journey.
Vincent, how are things on your side as we head into the festive season?
It’s been a really busy year, but now things are winding down. In about a week and a half, I’ll shut down completely and just enjoy some peace and quiet. You have to take care of yourself sometimes before life gets a hold of you.
Your journey from the DRC to South Africa is often described as one of resilience. What do you remember most about those early years and discovering rugby?
I came to South Africa when I was four. Growing up, I was a huge soccer fan — I supported Chelsea and Kaizer Chiefs — because my school only offered soccer. Rugby wasn’t even on my radar. When I got to Northcliff High, there was no soccer, only rugby. I was disappointed at first, but it turned out to be a blessing. My older brother Emmanuel started playing a year before me and introduced me to the game— that’s where it all began.
Your breakout with the Lions was a big moment. What lessons did that period teach you?
Resilience. The Lions were going through a tough time, and it taught me to have
what I call a David mindset — that belief that even when others see you as the underdog, you can still rise. As long as you can step on the field, you have a chance to fight.
How has your move to the Sharks influenced your development?
The goal was to grow among the best, and that’s exactly what happened. Over the past three years, I’ve developed not just as a player but as a man. The mentorship from teammates and coaches has been incredible. The results haven’t always gone our way, but my personal growth has exceeded expectations.
Many see you as a future Springbok. How do you handle that kind of pressure?
It’s easier said than done. Expectation can change you without you noticing. What keeps me grounded is knowing who I am — a son of God, a husband, and a family man. If you don’t know your identity, the highs and lows will shake you.
Did you ever struggle with belonging in South African rugby?
Vincent: Definitely. Coming into predominantly Afrikaans spaces was a challenge. There were moments when I didn’t feel like I belonged. But I met people who related to that feeling, and we built genuine friendships. That made me feel less alone.
Rugby can be mentally demanding. How do you stay focused and motivated?
I give myself reality checks. Who you think you are and who you really are don’t always match. If you think you’ve already arrived, you’ll stop growing. I make sure to stay honest with myself and allow trusted people to review me too.
Your playing style is known for its physicality. What are you working on now?
Physicality will always be part of my DNA, but I’ve realised it’s as much mental as physical. I’m working on the mental side — staying composed and dominant under pressure.
You’ve stepped into leadership at the Sharks. How has that been?
It’s been an honour. I’ve taken on some leadership responsibilities, and each
opportunity has helped me become more confident. Leadership, to me, is about consistency and assisting others to rise.
Outside of rugby, what passions are you exploring?
I’ve developed a strong interest in property investment and spend time learning about that space. Beyond that, I want to be more involved in my church and community. My faith has always been a big part of who I am. I often ask myself: If everything was taken away — the game, the fame — who would I be?
What are the three hardest lessons life has taught you?
Learning to be alone. Moving to Durban, away from family and friends, was challenging but necessary for growth. Don’t fix what isn’t broken. Stay grounded in what works for you, rather than chasing what others are doing. Surround yourself wisely. The people around you shape who you become — maybe not outwardly right away, but definitely inside.
Has your faith ever guided you to let go of something, even when it was difficult?
God is close to the broken-hearted because we often only listen when it hurts. I’ve had to let go of things that weren’t aligned with my purpose. It’s not easy, but I’ve learned to trust Him through every season.
From humble beginnings to becoming one of South Africa’s most promising rugby stars, Vincent Tshituka continues to inspire through faith, family, and authenticity — a reminder that true strength lies not in what you achieve, but in knowing who you are when everything else fades away.
