By Prashirwin Naidu
Ameera Hassen’s Strangers into Friends Picnics began as a vulnerable, open-hearted call to connection in a new city, and grew into a beloved community movement. What started with a TikTok video and a single gathering has evolved into a space where hundreds have found friendship, support, and joy.
1.How did it all begin?
It started two years ago, right after I moved from Johannesburg to Cape Town, Hassen says. I didn’t know anyone. It was right after COVID, and I felt incredibly lonely. She turned to TikTok and asked, in a video, “Is anyone in Cape Town looking to make friends?” The response was overwhelming. The comments were full of people saying they felt the same – isolated, craving connection. So, I said, “Let’s meet in real life.” She invited everyone to a picnic marked by yellow balloons at Camps Bay.
My brother said, “Maybe two people will come.” My sister thought I’d be standing there alone. Instead, 40 strangers showed up. It was magical. That day, I met people who are still in my life. One of the girls – I saved her in my phone as ‘Hannah Camps Bay’ – is still a friend today.
2. Why did it grow so fast?
It filled a real gap. So many people want to make friends but don’t know how. And the usual ways – clubs, bars – aren’t for everyone. The picnic space is intentional and welcoming. You’re not weird for walking up to someone. Everyone’s there for the same reason: to connect. There’s no pressure, no awkwardness. Just warmth.
4. Who comes to these picnics?
Mostly introverts and people with social anxiety, she says. A lot of people say they circled the picnic a few times or sat in their car before working up the courage to join. But when they do, they often come back again and again. Some have completely changed. They’re more confident, social, and happy. It’s beautiful to watch.
5. Why do people crave real-life connections in the digital age?
Because it’s real. We’re all online, but that doesn’t replace human connection. This gives people what they’re hungry for: eye contact, laughter, physical presence.
6. Any memorable moments?
Oh, so many! I’ve reconnected with people I went to school with – by pure chance. Others have made deep friendships. Some groups even created their own sub communities.
7. How do you make people feel comfortable?
Hosting takes a lot of energy. We vet our hosts carefully and give them a guide. On the day, there’s an A team to welcome guests and a B team who mingles. If someone looks nervous, we’ll go over and introduce them gently. It’s about reading the room and making people feel safe.
8. Where do you host events?
Cape Town and Joburg mostly. We’d love to expand.
9. How has the movement evolved?
It’s gone from being about me making friends to helping others make friends. People ask, ‘When’s the next picnic?’ It’s become a part of their lives.
10. Post-COVID, do you think people are more open to connection?
Absolutely. Cape Town’s community scene is growing. People want more than just acquaintances – they want something meaningful.
11. What advice would you give someone wanting to start something like this?
Just start. I didn’t have a plan. I just showed up. People crave connection — if you create the space, they’ll come.
For more information follow on the next picnic in a city near you, reach out to Ameera Hassen on Instagram, https://www.instagram.com/molly.tarts/
